For several years now, my husband and I have been going through a difficult period. Fights come and go like waves. Sometimes we can go a week or two without fighting, but lately our fights have become more serious and hurtful. My oldest child is 6 years old and has witnessed this. He is old enough to know what is going on and tells us to stop fighting and he gets scared. During our last fight, my husband threatened divorce https://onlinedivorcer.com/online-divorce-texas and told our children that he might not be around. I explained that we (parents) sometimes disagree and that we would work it out.

I grew up in a family where my parents' fighting got to this point, and it scared me when I was a little girl. I don't want to repeat that cycle. I can see in my children's eyes that it affects them. I don't know what to do other than move out and get some space. I need to figure it all out and work on what I bring to our relationship. We've had a few couples therapy sessions, but it seems to work out for a while and then we're back to our old relationship.